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  • How Architecture Shaped Me

    How Architecture Shaped Me

    There are some classrooms where you learn a subject.

    And then there are some classrooms that quietly change the way you see the world.

    For me, architecture was the second kind.

    When I look back at my early days of architecture school, I don’t remember only the sheets I drew, the lectures I attended, or the deadlines I somehow survived. I remember the little things—the drafting table, the parallel bar, the pencils, the bricks, the endless lines, the discussions, the mistakes.

    At that time, many of those things seemed unnecessarily complicated.

    Today, I realise they were quietly preparing me for much more than architecture.

    They were shaping me.

    The First Battle: Setting Up the Drafting Table

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    My first class didn’t really begin with architecture.

    It began with figuring out how on earth to set up a drafting table.

    We had the drafting board, the thread, the parallel bar, the set square and, of course, the bag pack that seemed to contain everything except the thing we actually needed.

    The biggest confusion was figuring out how to fix the thread and the pulley system properly.

    There were different ways to do it—metal clamps, plastic stiffeners and several other methods that seemed perfectly reasonable at first.

    But there was one little thing I discovered later that turned out to be the real one-man army:

    The metal nail.

    Yes, that tiny nail—the same kind carpenters use.

    It held the parallel-bar thread pulley firmly. The other methods worked too, but they could loosen, shift or get disturbed quite easily.

    That first day was messy.

    Threads everywhere.

    Confusion everywhere.

    Everyone trying to figure out which method was actually the right one.

    But much later, I realised something.

    Setting up that drafting table was like preparing the ground before hitting a six in a cricket match.

    You cannot simply walk onto the field and expect to hit the perfect shot.

    First, you prepare.

    You position yourself.

    You make sure your equipment is ready.

    Then you play.

    Architecture was teaching me that lesson before I even knew I was learning it.

    The Sheet That Refused to Behave

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    Once the drafting tables were finally ready, another challenge arrived:

    Fix the drafting sheet.

    Sounds easy, right?

    Just put the sheet on the board and secure it with cellotape.

    But apparently, even that had an art to it.

    The sheet had to be perfectly aligned and square.

    Use too much glue and the corners would tear.

    Use too little and the sheet would refuse to stay.

    And if you didn’t fix it properly, the sheet would eventually start moving along with the parallel bar.

    At that time, I thought:

    “Why is something this simple becoming such a big task?”

    But later I understood.

    Before you can create something beautiful, you have to gear up your base properly.

    The foundation may not be visible in the final product, but it determines how well everything else works.

    That lesson stayed with me.

    And then, finally, the lectures began.

    I was nervous.

    But I was excited too.

    I had no idea that those ordinary-looking classes were going to change me.

    The ₹40 Pencil

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    One of my first design classes was with Ar. Kuldeep, our design faculty at the time.

    He suggested that we use a Staedtler pencil.

    One pencil.

    ₹40.

    That was a lot for a pencil back then.

    My immediate reaction was basically:

    “Seriously?”

    But the pencil was only the beginning.

    He taught us how to sharpen it properly.

    And when I say properly, I mean properly.

    We spent what felt like hours working with a snap-off blade to create the perfect grip and using iron paper to achieve that precise pencil point.

    I remember wondering:

    “What is the point of spending so much time preparing a pencil when we could just start drawing?”

    Years later, I understood.

    The lesson wasn’t really about the pencil.

    It was about preparation.

    Before creating a presentable sheet, you prepare your tools.

    You prepare your mind.

    You prepare your workspace.

    You prepare yourself.

    Because once you learn how to gear up your tools before entering the battle, half the battle is already won.

    And the Staedtler itself taught another small lesson.

    Don’t always fall for the cheapest option.

    Good tools matter.

    A sturdy pencil with quality graphite may cost a little more, but it performs differently.

    Sometimes, investing in the right tool is not an expense.

    It is preparation.

    H1, H2, HB, B1, B2…

    Then came another lecture.

    We had to draw lines.

    Different pencils.

    Different grades.

    H1.

    H2.

    HB.

    B1.

    B2.

    And probably several others that made me question everything I thought I knew about pencils.

    I had previously been perfectly comfortable with my basic Natraj pencil.

    And suddenly architecture had introduced me to an entire family of pencils.

    The task was simple:

    Draw seamless lines using different grades.

    In reality?

    It was frustrating.

    The pencil points broke.

    The sheet moved.

    The lines didn’t look right.

    Sometimes the pencil felt completely wrong in my hand.

    I hated the exercise.

    But I eventually understood what it was trying to teach me.

    If you keep using only the tools that are comfortable for you, you will keep producing the results that those tools allow.

    If you want different results, you have to learn to command different tools.

    That lesson has nothing to do with pencils alone.

    It applies to life.

    Different problems require different approaches.

    Different situations require different skills.

    And sometimes the tool that feels uncomfortable is exactly the tool you need.

    The Brick That Taught Me About Big Things

    Then came our first construction lecture.

    Bricks.

    I remember thinking:

    “Bricks? Really?”

    I had played with them in my childhood while making tiny houses for my toys.

    I never imagined that such a simple rectangular block could be so important in architecture.

    But that day changed my perspective.

    A building that looks enormous from the outside is ultimately made from countless smaller units.

    One brick.

    Then another.

    Then another.

    And another.

    Until thousands of small pieces become something big.

    That day I learned something I still carry with me:

    Every big thing is a result of repetitive small things.

    So focus on the small.

    Because the small things are what eventually build the big things.

    A building.

    A career.

    A relationship.

    A life.

    The Art of Making Things Better

    Our Art and Graphics classes were taught by Mr. Anil Vishwakarma.

    He was exceptionally good at what he did.

    But what I remember most wasn’t just his teaching technique.

    It was the way he looked at our drawings.

    We could bring him something that we thought was completely ruined.

    A drawing full of mistakes.

    Something we weren’t proud of.

    And somehow, he would work with it.

    He wouldn’t necessarily make it perfect.

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    But he could always make it better than before.

    And that stayed with me.

    Because perhaps that is how life should work too.

    We don’t always get the chance to start with a perfect drawing.

    Sometimes we make mistakes.

    Sometimes we take the wrong line.

    Sometimes the proportions are completely off.

    Sometimes we look at what we have created and think it is beyond repair.

    But maybe it isn’t.

    Maybe we just need to work on it again.

    Correct a little.

    Improve a little.

    Learn a little.

    Try again.

    Every point in life can become a new beginning.

    You don’t always have to erase everything.

    Sometimes you simply need to make what you already have a little better.

    Architecture Wasn’t About Memorising

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    One of the things I loved about architecture school was that many of our lectures didn’t feel like traditional lectures.

    It wasn’t always:

    Teacher sitting on a chair.

    Students sitting silently.

    Someone dictating information.

    Everyone trying to memorise it before the examination.

    Instead, many classes felt like conversations.

    Discussions.

    Debates.

    Questions.

    One-to-one conversations.

    Arguments about ideas.

    Sharing perspectives.

    Listening to someone else’s interpretation.

    It was very different from school life.

    And surprisingly, I liked it much more.

    Because when you discuss something, you don’t simply remember it.

    You begin to understand it.

    When you explain your thoughts, you discover what you actually think.

    When someone challenges your idea, you learn to defend it—or sometimes realise that you were wrong.

    Architecture slowly taught me that learning isn’t always about collecting answers.

    Sometimes it is about learning how to ask better questions.

    And Then Architecture Started Changing Me

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    These are only a few memories from the early stages of architecture.

    A drafting table.

    A metal nail.

    A sheet of paper.

    A ₹40 pencil.

    Different grades of graphite.

    Endless lines.

    Bricks.

    Drawings.

    Discussions.

    Teachers.

    Mistakes.

    At the time, they seemed like disconnected parts of an architecture curriculum.

    Today, I see the connection.

    They were all quietly building something inside me.

    Architecture taught me to prepare before beginning.

    To respect my tools.

    To step outside my comfort zone.

    To understand that big things are made from small, repetitive efforts.

    To improve instead of giving up.

    To discuss instead of simply memorising.

    And most importantly, architecture taught me to observe.

    Since then, the chain has never really stopped.

    I learned something from every drawing.

    Every building.

    Every site.

    Every mistake.

    Every teacher.

    Every project.

    Every deadline.

    And slowly, without even realising it, the way I looked at the world began to change.

    A normal door stopped being just a door.

    It became an opening.

    A red wall stopped being just a red wall.

    I started noticing the brickwork.

    The bond.

    The texture.

    The pattern.

    The way light touched its surface.

    A staircase wasn’t simply something to climb.

    It became a study of movement, proportion and space.

    Windows became frames.

    Shadows became compositions.

    Empty spaces became meaningful.

    And somewhere along the way, something else changed too.

    I started paying attention not only to the minute details of architecture…

    but also to the minute details of life.

    The small things people say.

    The pauses between conversations.

    The way a place makes you feel.

    The details everyone else might walk past.

    The little things that eventually become something much bigger.

    This Is How Architecture Shaped Me

    When I think about architecture today, I don’t think it only gave me a profession.

    It gave me a perspective.

    It changed the way I observe.

    The way I think.

    The way I solve problems.

    The way I understand mistakes.

    The way I approach preparation.

    The way I appreciate details.

    Architecture didn’t just teach me how to design spaces.

    It taught me how to see them.

    And perhaps, in the process, it taught me how to see life a little differently too.

    Those early days were not simply about learning how to draw a line, fix a sheet, sharpen a pencil or understand a brick.

    They were about learning how to build myself.

    One small lesson at a time.

    One mistake at a time.

    One drawing at a time.

    One conversation at a time.

    And just like a building, the person I am today wasn’t created in a single day.

    It was built layer by layer.

    Frame by frame.

    Detail by detail.

    This is how architecture framed the Shubham Mishra I know today.

    And perhaps that is the most beautiful thing architecture gave me.

    It didn’t just help me build structures.

    It helped build me.

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  • My First Day At College

    My First Day At College

    It was the 13th of August, 2013.

    I left home for the first time in my life.

    I was beginning a journey as an architecture student at MET, Moradabad.

    And honestly, I was terrified.

    I had chosen architecture against my father’s wish. But the funny thing about my father was that, even when he disagreed with us, he never forced us to live the life he had imagined for us. He gave us the freedom to choose.

    He was, in many ways, way ahead of his time—especially for the place we came from, Powayan. Things have changed a lot there now, but back then, his way of thinking felt different.

    And so, on that August morning, I left home carrying a strange mixture of excitement, fear, guilt, and a heart that was already beginning to miss everything I was leaving behind.

    THE JOURNEY

    After travelling all the way from my hometown, Powayan, to Moradabad, we finally reached the college.

    I remember the entrance vividly.

    There was a brown gate on the right-hand side. Beyond it was a landscape that, to my eyes, looked completely unfamiliar—maroon buildings, green trees, grey roads, and a few buildings painted light yellow.

    There was a small, hut-shaped entry house where entries were being recorded.

    My father stopped and asked the guard,

    “Architecture Department kidhar hai?”

    (English Translation – “Where is the Architecture Department ? “)

    The guard bhaiya simply raised his hand and pointed towards the building at the other end of the lane.

    I looked in that direction.

    That building suddenly felt enormous.

    Like a monster waiting at the end of the road that was going to swallow me whole.

    Gathering whatever courage I had, I walked inside with my father and completed all the admission formalities.

    Then I asked someone about the hostel.

    And we started walking towards it.

    I remember wishing that the lane would somehow become longer.

    Just a little longer.

    Because somewhere inside me, I was still hoping that something would happen—that maybe the hostel stay would somehow get cancelled, and I could just go back home.

    But life doesn’t usually negotiate with you.

    The hostel gate appeared.

    And then it happened.

    The gate closed behind my father with that unmistakable “cheenk” sound.

    I still remember it.

    That sound felt louder than it actually was.

    Like the sound of a chapter closing.

    THE GATE THAT FELT LIKE GOODBYE

    That gate felt like goodbye.

    For the first time in my life, I was going to live away from home.

    Alone.

    With strangers.

    A part of me was excited.

    But the child inside me was screaming,

    Please, don’t leave me here.

    After my room was allotted, my father looked at my mother and said,

    “Let’s go home.”

    And the moment I heard those words, I started crying.

    My mother started crying too.

    And there we were—holding each other and crying at the hostel gate like two characters from an overdramatic Indian television serial who had finally found each other after being separated for twenty years.

    People around us were actually laughing.

    Maybe for them, it was funny.

    Maybe it was completely normal.

    For me, it was one of the hardest moments of my life.

    I didn’t know how to stay away from home.

    I didn’t know how to sleep without my family nearby.

    I didn’t know how to be an adult.

    And, of course, one of my seniors later mocked me for crying that day.

    At that time, I remember thinking,

    I swear, if I wasn’t a junior…

    But I was.

    So I survived that with everything else.

    I entered my hostel room and went completely blank.

    It was basically a cleverly designed 10′ × 10′ partition of a 2BHK flat.

    I barely noticed anything.

    The room.

    The bed.

    The walls.

    The people.

    Nothing registered.

    I just cried.

    A lot.

    Because no one tells you how loud silence becomes on your first day away from home.

    4:00 AM

    That night—or perhaps that morning—I woke up at 4:00 AM.

    I took a bath, got ready, and offered puja to Maa Saraswati, Sai Baba, and Mahadev.

    I needed them that day.

    And somehow, they stayed with me throughout that entire journey.

    My breakfast timing was 8:00 AM.

    There was a window in my room that opened towards the temple of Maa Saraswati.

    I sat there.

    And looked at the temple.

    For hours.

    The temple had an octagonal central space where the statue of Maa Saraswati stood. Around it was a small square peripheral boundary, with large glass openings through which I could see glimpses of the statue.

    I don’t know what I was thinking.

    Maybe nothing.

    Maybe everything.

    I just kept looking.

    Three hours passed without me realizing it.

    And suddenly, it was 8:00 AM.

    Time for breakfast.

    On my way to the mess, there was a small metal bridge connecting two buildings.

    I crossed it, had breakfast, came back, got ready for college, and prepared myself for the most terrifying thing yet.

    My first day.

    I don’t remember what I wore.

    I don’t remember what I ate.

    But I remember exactly how I felt.

    AND THEN IT WAS TIME—MY FIRST DAY AT COLLEGE

    The classroom was full of people from different places.

    Different faces.

    Different energies.

    Some looked excited:

    “Let’s make friends!”

    Some looked completely lost:

    “What the hell am I doing here?”

    Some already seemed to know everything:

    “Bro, I already know everything.”

    And some were simply enjoying the beginning of what they believed would be the best years of their lives.

    And then there was me.

    Sitting quietly inside the classroom, thinking:

    “God, B.Tech se toh bach gayi… ab yahan se kaise bachun?”

    (English Translation – ” I managed to escape B.Tech……. Now, how do I escape this?” )

    I had no idea that the place I was desperately trying to escape from would eventually become one of the most important chapters of my life.

    I had no idea that the strangers sitting around me would slowly become friends.

    That the classrooms would become familiar.

    That the hostel would eventually feel less like a prison and more like home.

    And I certainly had no idea that this ordinary-looking day would become a memory I would carry for the rest of my life.

    THE INTRODUCTION ROUND — AND THE THREE LADIES

    Then three ladies walked into the classroom.

    And honestly?

    OMG.

    They each had their own aura.

    I loved it instantly.

    Santosh Ma’am—the HOD of the department.

    Uparika Ma’am.

    And Gunjan Ma’am.

    They sat on chairs in front of the entire class, at the podium.

    The introduction session began.

    My heartbeat?

    Uncountable.

    One by one, students went forward.

    People talked about their talents.

    Someone danced.

    Someone sang.

    Someone talked about drawing.

    Some were genuinely amazing.

    And then—

    My name.

    My heart almost stopped.

    I got up and walked towards the front, holding my heart with both hands.

    Santosh Ma’am looked at me and asked,

    “Why did you opt for architecture?”

    This time, I decided to be honest.

    Because I had already understood one important thing about Santosh Ma’am.

    You cannot lie to her.

    She somehow knows.

    So I said,

    “I came here as an escape from B.Tech.”

    And there it was.

    My brutally honest introduction.

    Then she asked,

    “Tell us your hobby.”

    Blank.

    Absolutely blank.

    My mind was suddenly like an A4 sheet with nothing drawn on it.

    While listening to everyone else’s introductions, however, I had realized something about myself.

    I was—and still am—a huge fan of stories and poems.

    So I said,

    “I like reading.”

    And then, perhaps because I had already survived the hardest part, I even recited my favourite comic poem from that time.

    I’ll share that poem with you guys someday.

    It’s really amazing.

    And then—

    It was over.

    I walked back to my seat.

    My heartbeat slowly returned to normal.

    But that tiny introduction stayed with me.

    Even after all these years.

    THE LANE BACK TO THE HOSTEL

    After the introductions, we were free.

    We could explore the college or go back to the hostel.

    I chose the hostel.

    And I walked back alone.

    That same lane.

    The one that had looked like a monster a few hours earlier.

    Only now, I was walking through it by myself.

    I felt as if everyone was looking at me.

    Maybe nobody was.

    But that’s how it felt.

    I walked the entire lane lost in my own thoughts.

    I didn’t know it then, but somewhere between that college building and that hostel gate, something had changed.

    I was still scared.

    Still homesick.

    Still that girl who wanted her parents to turn around and come back.

    But I had entered college.

    I had introduced myself.

    I had survived my first day.

    And perhaps, without realizing it, I had taken my first real step towards becoming the person I would eventually be.

    That evening, I met a few of my batch mates in the hostel.

    And yes, these are all the people from my department who live in the hostel with me.

    Prachi.

    Priyanshi.

    Ayushi.

    Pooja.

    Nazma.

    Adeel.

    Yusra.

    Pranjali.

    Vishakha.

    Shristi.

    At that moment, they were just names.

    Just a bunch of strangers who happened to be in the same hostel, in the same batch, at the same time.

    I had absolutely no idea that this was Day 1 of a five-year story we would eventually frame together.

    A story made of fights.

    Laughter.

    Tears.

    Assignments.

    Secrets.

    Late-night conversations.

    Maggi at 2 AM.

    Stupid jokes.

    Celebrations.

    And countless memories that would one day become impossible to explain to anyone who wasn’t there.

    After dinner, I called my parents.

    Hearing their voices made the strange new world feel a little less strange.

    And then I went to sleep.

    Scared.

    Homesick.

    Still missing home.

    Still wondering how I was going to survive this place.

    But somewhere between the tears, the unfamiliar room, the temple outside my window, the strange faces in my classroom, and that hostel gate that had closed behind my father…

    Something had changed.

    For the first time in my life, I was completely on my own.

    And strangely…

    For the first time, I was exactly where I was supposed to be.

    I didn’t know it then, but I had already crossed the hardest door.

    The door between being someone’s daughter at home…

    And becoming a little more of myself.

    And somewhere inside that strange new place, surrounded by unfamiliar faces, my five-year story had quietly begun.

    If I could go back to that 13-year-old version of me—standing at that hostel gate, crying and desperately wanting to go home—I would just hug her and say,

    “Don’t worry. You are going to be okay.”

    “In fact, you are going to have the time of your life.”

    Because that scared little girl had no idea how beautiful the story ahead of her was going to be.

    Dear Readers, now I want to know about you.

    What was your first day at college like?

    Were you excited, scared, homesick, and completely lost—or already ready to conquer the world?

    Tell me your first-day story. I’d love to know what that day looked like for you.

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